Dielectric grease, or tune-up grease, is a silicone-based grease that repels moisture and protects electrical connections against corrosion. ... The grease does not conduct electricity, so it shouldn't be applied directly to the mating surfaces (pins and sockets) of an electrical connection.
You can purchase a J1772 extension cable, if that is what you need however these are $$.
It is best to leave the Level 1 EVSE plugged in even when not charging. Repeated plugging and unplugging will, over time, loosen the connection and wear out the receptacle. Don't let the EVSE hang from the power plug. The plug and the socket are not designed to support the weight of the EVSE electronics package. Support the EVSE electronics package in some way to take the strain off the power plug.