I have those settings turned off and I don't get any annoying loud honks any more. The one thing I have to watch out for is stepping out of the car with it left on. It will honk if I do that unless I turn the car off first, or leave the keys inside, or leave the door open.
The only honk left is the soft honk when I plug in the EVSE. But that is not annoying to me.
The only honk left is the soft honk when I plug in the EVSE. But that is not annoying to me.